Sunday, January 15, 2012
Is she complaining or boasting? Either way how do I make her stop?
She is looking and so are you for some one to hear her. Questions to ask yourselves. Why isn't anyone listening? Are you hearing her? Biggest Question is why is she throwing up all the time at school ? I know, here we go again, it's always about her.......I have a sister like that and it's frustrating as all get-out. We need to talk about things and we always hope that someone out there is able to not just commiserate but to sympathize with our need at the time. Those type of persons are rare,to meet one is illuminating. Those type of people will one day become the center of your world, the people that you will remember for the rest of your life. Soooooooo........ I hate to say this but Be honest and tell her politely " I was just looking for a little sympathy that's all . And by the way would you like to talk about something? I get the feeling that there is something your trying to tell someone about your stomach problems , or maybe not?" She will either spill her guts to you or she will stop talking about that particular subject.Or who knows?????? Be warned however that you might just learn a little bit more than you bargained for which could be good or bad. The person that learns how to listen first wins big time. Good Luck
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