Do you think it is unfair...?

does it really matter what anyone looks like it is not what we look like but who we are that matters most in the long run i say if you feel as strongly as you seem to do that will be automatically be ped onto the child you adopt and so he/she will only reciprocate the feelings we are one world made up of a lot of different people and we are all individuals so what we look like doesn't matter as much as people think