17,married...work 3 jobs,expecting twins,and husband stays home and smokes all day?

I'm sorry this annoys me! You sound just like the situation my cousin and his wife was in. She worked 2 jobs and was trying to finish her schooling when she was pregnant with their son. He'd even forget to pick her up from her job and she'd call me to come get her. Make him get off his A@$ and get a job. Imagine what its going to be like after the baby comes your already in a very stressful place with everything and then add 2 newborns to the mix and your gonna blow. Yes you got married very young but i can't say anything about that i got married to my husband at 16 but we waited 7 yrs b4 we even decided to have children. You need to be thinking about what future your children are gonna have if he continues to be this way! You need more then emotinal support when taking care of children and he needs to be contributing to that since he is the father looks to me like hes getting a free ride and you don't need to be in a relationship like that. If he really cared he would be out looking for a job to help with the household and baby arrivals.